Play Another Slow Jam

When my fiancee and I first started dating I learned a valuable lesson about romance. In the past, much of my "game" revolved around playing slow jam classics like Prince, Sade, Stevie Wonder, etc. to set the mood. But none of that stuff worked with her b/c she never heard of half the songs I would play! At first this made me REALLY frustrated. Then I had an epiphany: why was I using other peoples' songs about love to spark romance, when I had the real thing sitting right in front of me?

Lesson learned: There's no greater composer of a love song than your own heart.