Instructions:

1. Each week, people post notes that share little lessons or observations from everyday life.
2. Others read these notes and then share their own stories.
3. Word spreads, stories are shared, and we all enjoy "the little things" that life has to offer.

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7.25.2007

A Not So Pleasant Surprise

I'm pretty hard to surprise I think its because I'm so nosey. Now that I think about it I don't think anyone has actually ever tried.

But I recently had a surprise that wasn't a good one. I found out last week that the husband of my friend is dying of terminal cancer. He's 37 years old. They are active, healthy, they run marathons, live on the beach. She's a vegetarian. All of the things they say you're supposed to do to live a long and healthy life. I know my friend never thought that she could be a widow at 36.

Lesson Learned: Sometimes doing the right thing just isn't enough. Tomorrow is not promised. Live each day like its your last because it actually might be.

Submitted by: Nicole

7.24.2007

Integrity

Everday one's integrity is tested either in personal relationships, business dealings, school,finances, or in the games we play .I try not to ever compromise my integrity, even on the golf course where scoring is left up to each individual player to record his own score accurately. It would be easy to not count a 'whiff' at the ball as a stroke particularly if you're behind a tree and no one is looking to see if that was a practice swing I made, or an attempt at hitting the ball. Whiffs are counted as a stroke. Unlike other sports golf is a game of honesty and self-assessment. I love golf for the challenges it presents, but it is also a good test or measure of one's integrity.

Submitted by: CKC Sr.

School of Hard Knocks

I’ve had a lot of surprises throughout my life, but the biggest surprise came when I was a senior in high school many, many, many, did I say many, years ago.

I went to a predominantly white school in the rural South. There were six African American girls in my senior class including me, and three African American boys. My entire senior class consisted of 348 students. Be that as it may, we were friends with everybody. To be honest, during that time, for whatever reason we didn’t see color. We knew that after school and after school related activities, we didn’t venture into their neighborhoods and they didn’t venture into the “Color Section” of town.

One day I was talking to one of my dearest friends. (We’re still the best of friends today.) Her name was Debbie. I met Debbie when we were in the 1st grade. Debbie was this corky looking white girl with red hair and freckles that invited me to her Pizza party at Pasqual’s Pizza, when it was not heard of for a black child to be at a white child’s birthday party. Anyway, we were looking at our senior class schedule to see if we were in some of the same classes, and I notice that Debbie had Calculus and Economics, while I had Algebra 2 and Chemistry. I said, “Debbie, how did you get those classes?” She said, “They were on the curriculum.” I was like, “Well, we have the same curriculum, but I didn’t see those on mine.” I really did think too much about it until I was talking to two other African American Students. I asked if they had Calculus and Econ on their curriculum. They each say no. We discuss the classes that Debbie was taking and decided to bring it to Debbie’s attention. Once we compared “our” curriculum to a few of the other white student’s curriculum, we discovered that we had different curriculums. Talk about a wake up call.

Lesson learned: Integration was an illusion of inclusion.

Submitted by: Torria

7.23.2007

Curve Ball

Last time I was surprised? When my girlfriend and I had a wonderful 2 hour talk in the morning and then at the end of our call she said, "baby let's take a break from each other".

Submitted by: Anonymous

Smooth Operator

Recently my fiance asked me to shave all my facial hair. At first I was adamatly opposed to it because I think my big nose looks even more ginormous in the absence of a mustache. But I figured what the heck, anything for the my future wife, right? So I went ahead and shaved it all off. And you know what.....it wasn't that bad. In fact, after a day or two I actually started to like it. Grooming is 10x easier and my fiance loves that my whiskers don't scratch her anymore. I feel like a new man.

Lesson learned: Unlearning old assumptions is very liberating.